Once upon a time, I was married.  I bet you didn’t know that…or maybe you did.  It was ages ago now and sometimes feels as though it happened to another person.  I didn’t kill him or anything, I left him.  I like to use our relationship as a cautionary tale, a teaching tool if you will, to remind cuckolds that it can all end in a moment.

You see, I hear all the time “How do I get my wife to cuckold me?”  And I give all kinds of advice of course, but really it’s not up to you and that’s what I like to share with every cuckold or potential cuckold.  Whether you like it because you are into humiliation or swinging or feminization or just really want to suck a cock but can’t admit it doesn’t matter.  What matters is why your wife or girlfriend likes it.  You see that’s one of the downfalls of a cuckold and that’s what I want to warn you about.

Cuckolds tend to forget they aren’t in charge.  Even if you go out and find the man and it’s all your idea, you are NOT in charge.  You are just a cuckold.  You are the fluffer, the watcher,  And most cuckold relationships end, not because the woman falls for the big cocked bull she’s fucking, but because her cuckold starts to think it’s about him and wants to dictate how each session goes.  That’s what happened with Richie and I.  I got tired of him trying to run things and acting like it was my choice.

So take heed cuckolds.  You are not in charge and your needs are secondary.  Don’t get it twisted.